الإنسان يتعلم وتتوسع آفاقه عن الحياة كلما خرج وأحتك بالناس وعايش معاناتهم وأحزانهم... وكذلك عندما يحكم عقله وعقلانيته للحكم بما يرى ويسمع
كثيرة هي المواقف والجدالات والأمور التي أثرت بي... لكن بما أني لم أكن أسجل الأحداث فلنبدأ بما مر علي مؤخراً وأثر فيني..
قد نرى امرأة مخلصة لدرجة إنكار ذاتها واحتياجاتها في سبيل الوفاء للأخر ... يمر هذا كثيرا علينا ولذا فهو طبيعي وليس (خاااااارق للعادة) ... في حين قد يذهلنا بشدة إذا ما واجهنا رجل مخلص ولدية وفاء لطرفه الأخر ... نتأثر كثيراً إذا ما واجهنا قصة من هذا النوع!!!
ألم تتساءلوا مثلي لمـــــــــــاذا؟؟
أروع اكتشاف...>> أن أعرف أن المرأة تتميز بالوفاء والإخلاص لطبيعتها العاطفية الحنونة الدافئة... في حين يتميز الرجل بالجحود والجمود لطبيعته الانتهازية الاستغلالية.
قد تعتقدون أني عدت وأحمل بداخلي تحيز للمرأة ضد الرجل!!!
لا أبداً ... لكن ما شهدته من الواقع برهن أن السمة الغالبة للمرأة الوفاء لدرجة البكاء!!! بينما سمة الرجل مصلحته الذاتية ورغباته الأنانية ولا يهمه أي طرف أخر!!!
قصة إخلاص: قصة امرأة تزوجت رجل بسيط وهي الموظفة العاملة...أنجبت طفل جميل يكلل حياتهم بهجة وفرحة... لكن وقع زوجها مريض بلا سبب واضح وأصابه شلل... شيئا فشيئا فقد معها كل قدراته على الحركة وحتى الكلام ...أصبح كالجثة الحية .... بذلت الزوجة كل شيء لأجله ... سخرت كل أموالها لعلها تجد العلاج بالداخل والخارج... وبعد كل جهودها لم تجد لمرض زوجها أي علاج... وبقى كما هو على حاله وعلى فراشة... مضت السنوات ولم يحدث أي تطور وبقى الزوج كما هو بلا حراك ولا حياة ولا شيء... بدأ أهلها يضغطون عليها أن لا تضيع حياتها سدى ... فهي لا تزال شابة وموظفة ولديها فقط طفل واحد ولا تعيش حياتها كباقي النساء المتزوجات... عليها التفكير جدياً بشأن مستقبلها مع رجل أخر... لكنها رفضت وأصرت أن تلازم زوجها تراعيه وتهتم به ... فلا أحد له بعدها!!!
أي وفاء وأي إخلاص بل أي تضحية قد يبذلها إنسان لأجل إنسان معلق ما بين الموت والحياة!!!
لا داعي أن أطرح قصص مناقضة رغم كثرتها ... فقط هل يمكن تخيل رجل يضحي لأجل طرفه الآخر كما هي المرأة؟؟؟
قد نقول هناك ولكنهم شواااااااااذ وقله قليلة!!
بعض القصص التي مرت علي كانت المرأة أو الزوجة بحالة صحية جيدة ...فقط تحتاج دعم ومساندة معنوية من الزوج.. لكن بعض الأزواج لا يتأخرون في إيجاد البديل مع امرأة أخرى جديدة... بلا أدنى ذرة إحساس ومسئولية.
ما جرحني مؤخراً أن تسقط صديقة بل جوهرة ثمينة بيد رجل لا يقدرها ولا يعرف قيمتها ... هو أعمى بل أضل!!! فلا هو زوج يعرف واجبه ولا هو مسلم يعرف حدود ربه!
تعاني صديقتي الأمرين معه رغم أنها تقسم أنها لم تقصر أبدا اتجاهه واتجاه واجباتها معه كزوجة ... أشجعها ولا أدري كيف أشجعها وأنا أدرك جيداً هول ووقع وألم أن يخونك ويغدر بك إنسان أصبح يسكنك وأصبح جزء منك وفيك!!!
تتوالى علي القصص والمآسي ... والرابط الأكبر أن المرأة هي التي تعاني لا الرجل!!!
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كثيرة هي القصص والمآسي والأحزان... لكن أثبتت المرأة أنها الأرفع والأعلى من الرجل بمساحة تضحياتها و صدق حبها و روعة عاطفتها و عظيم إخلاصها!!!
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